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Curbow Family in America – Overview – Part 1

Many years ago, when I initially began to delve into the history of my husband’s Curbow family, I was told by immediate family members that three Curbow brothers came to America from Ireland – while still other researchers stated that the Curbow’s were French Huguenots who fled France to escape religious persecution. In addition to this oral history, I ran across a 1949 newspaper article published in the Southwestern Times (a Houston, Texas publication) entitled, Local Couple to Join Six Varieties of Kerbow at Cooper.  The article goes on to detail a Kerbow family reunion which was to include all spellings of the surname – Kerbo; Kerbow; Kirbo; Curbo; Curbow and Kuehrbeaux.  The article claimed that the family (no matter the spelling) is descended from a Joseph Kerbo of Edgefield County, South Carolina, and in particular, is descended from one of the 45 French Huguenot families which settled just south of the Santee River at old James Town, South Carolina in 1680.  To date, I have found no real sources to substantiate any of these family stories.


Published Southwestern Times Houston on Thursday, August 4, 1949, Vol. 5, No. 46, Ed. 1


To be sure, we do have a Joseph Curbow in our line. He was a North Carolina revolutionary war soldier, who did live for a period of time in the Edgefield District of South Carolina but later settled in Gwinnett County, Georgia.  Joseph is believed to be one of our Curbow ancestors – we just don’t have the information yet on how he ties into our family line.  I believe that the French Huguenot ancestor being described in the Southwestern Times news article is Jean Carrieŕe who did in fact settle in Old James Town, South Carolina on the Santee River.  Old James Town was located about forty miles north of Charleston and was settled by French Huguenots who established the first Huguenot Church there (The French Santee St. James).  In Jean Carrieŕe’s naturalization record, he was described as a cooper and a planter.  He was born to Jean and Elizabeth Carrieŕe in Normandy, France.  According to relevant parish records, he did marry and he did have a son named John.  A Jean Carrieŕe (possibly the father of this immigrant) was denizened in England in 1700.  A land warrant was issued in South Carolina on 3 Jan 1701 for the survey of 200 acres for a “John Careau.”  I believe that we can disprove – or at least cast heavy doubt on the theory – that this Jean Carrieŕe is our Curbow ancestor.  The timeline is much earlier than what we know about our Curbow ancestors and this information does not fit our Curbow family migration pattern (Pennsylvania to Maryland to North Carolina to South Carolina to Georgia and then into Texas).

The Curbow surname does appear to be of French origin. As used in America, it may be an Anglicized form of the French surname Courbou(x) or Courboules. In that instance, Curbow is derived from the village named Courbou(x), in the Lat and Haute-Saone region of eastern France. Alternatively, it could be an Anglicized form of Courbeu(x) or Corbault. In that case, the name derives from the French word corbeau – which translates raven.

In genealogy, your family history research must begin with the known facts about your ancestors and work itself to the unknown.  After almost ten years of researching, I have hit a major brick wall with my husband’s 3x great grandfather, Tilman P. Curbow, and so I have decided to do something that any professional genealogist would warn you against.  I have skipped forward by several generations of known Curbows – and have started working my way down the family tree.  By doing this I hope to get a clearer picture of the Curbow family as a whole and possibly glean some answers as to who Tilman Curbow’s parents were.

Have any of you ever researched “down the family tree”?  What are your strategies in breaking down brick walls?

Stay tuned for Part 2 – Jean Corbeau – the immigrating ancestor –

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Posted by on September 18, 2016 in Curbow


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Henry Harrison Curbow

Henry Harrison Curbow (the great great grand uncle of my husband) was the youngest child of Tilman P. Curbow and wife Elizabeth Box.  Elizabeth had a brother named Harrison Box, and perhaps Henry received his middle name from this uncle.  From the census records, we can conclude that Henry was born about 1858 in Mississippi , and again, probably in Itawamba County .  Henry can be found in the 1860 and 1870 census with his parents.  When the 1880 census was enumerated, Henry was living with his oldest sister, Lucinda Curbow Lytle and family in McLennan County , Texas .  The remainder of the information that I have on Henry raises more questions about his life than answers. 

On 10 Jan 1882 , Henry married Mary “Mollie” C. Young in McLennan County , Texas .  Mollie was probably the daughter of John M. Young and Martha C. Dudley born between 1859- 1860 in Missouri , most likely in Lincoln County, where her family can be found in the census records.  I say “probably” because I have nothing to tie her to this family other than the census records.  Mollie arrived in Texas sometime between 1870 and 1880.  I can find no record of her after her marriage to Henry Harrison Curbow, and it is possible that she may have died young or the marriage did not last.  Alternatively, she may have remarried; however, I have not been able to find a second marriage record for Mary in the McLennan County, Texas Marriage Books. 

I have found listings for H. H. Curbow in both the 1882 and 1884 McLennan County Tax Rolls.  He was taxed for his personal property – a wagon, horses and hogs.  He is not listed in any Waco City Directory of the time period. 

On a recent trip to the McLennan County Courthouse, my husband and I stumbled upon the probate records of Henry Harrison Curbow.  He died as a very young man on 10 January 1885 – only 26 years old.  While Henry did not leave a Will, he did have assets and debts, and so it was necessary to probate his estate.  I was able to obtain the entire probate file – and some of the pertinent excerpts are as follows:
  • On 18 May, 1885, W. L. Booker made application to be appointed administrator of the Estate.  This application informs the Court that “H. H. Curbow departed this life intestate (without a Will) in McLennan County on or about the 10th day of January 1885.”
  • On 27 July, 1885 , the administrator filed the Inventory and Appraisal along with the List of Claims.  The Inventory concluded that Henry Harrison Curbow owned no real property but did own personal property – a partial list includes: 

Four mares (various colors and various brandings) along with their respective colts; 25 head of branded stock horses; three branded horses; three sows and eleven shoats; three turning plows; one set of guns; one saddle (in the possession of his father, T. P. Curbow; two old wagons; 62 bushels of corn (“in Bentley’s hands to be delivered this fall”). 

 It appears that Henry Harrison Curbow owned quite a few horses; In 1882 and 1884, he paid taxes on horses – was he a horse trader?  A cowboy?  A rancher?  He may have been a farmer, but that seems less likely as he didn’t own any land and his farm implements were few and listed as “old.” 

 The List of Claims against the Estate of H. H. Curbow included:

  •  T. P. Curbow – claimed rights to 130 bushels of corn belonging to said estate and by said T. P. Curbow – $60.00.
  • Sam G. Mills – claimed rights to “a sum of money not definitely known to this administrator but suffered to be about $80 or $90.” 
  • C.D. Bentleyclaimed money owed for board of Henry H. Curbow from the 29th day of December 1884 to January 10, 1885: $12.00; Nursing of Henry H. Curbow for 9 days during January 1885 at $2.00 per day: $18.00; 3 quarts of whiskey at $1.00 per quart: $3.00; Washing: $2.00; Board for Monroe Tull, laborer for Harrison H. Curbow for which said Curbow above gave, from November 28, 1884 to January 5, 1885 at $10 per month: $20.00; Total claimed:  $55.00.  (I was able to locate a Monroe Tull in the 1880 census – He was living in Lamar County , age 17, born 1863 in Arkansas .  He was a hired hand working on a farm for Mr. J. B. Hodges.  This interests me.  Henry’s sister, Martha Isabel, married first Charles Hodges who was born in Arkansas .  I wonder if there is some connection here?)

On this same date, 27 July, 1885 , the Court ordered that all of Henry Harrison’s assets be sold and that the credits and claimants be paid.  The information above leads me to ask several questions:

Where was his wife?  Had she died or were they divorced?  Why was Henry Harrison Curbow not being tended to by his family?  Why was a stranger nursing and boarding him?  Why was he being charged for whiskey?  Was he an alcoholic or was the whiskey being used for medicinal purposes?  Why was the estate charged for washing?  Was this washing of his clothes or washing of his body after death?  Was he estranged from his family? 

Ben Alexander, a citizen of McLennan County , Texas contested the Final Accounting of Henry Harrison Curbow’s Estate.  His contesting of the Final Accounting rests on his claim that:  “a large part of his claim was for expense of the last sickness of H. H. Curbow, deceased.”   (I have located a B. Alexander in the 1880 census.  He is living in Waco , McLennan County , Texas .  He is 37 years old, born 1843 in Posen , Prussia .  He is living with his wife, Marie Alexander, age 22 and daughter, Gusta, age 1.  He is a merchant.  Interestingly, he has 3 boarders in his home.  Could this be where Henry Harrison spent his last days?)

On 1 September, 1885 , the administrator of the Estate, W. L. Barker, filed the Final Accounting with the Judge in McLennan County .  Important excerpts from the final administration include the following: 

 ...comes and shows that all the debts known to exist against said Estate (except as hereinafter shown) have been paid as far as the assets coming into his hands would allow……

……inventory and appraisements filed on the 27th day of July 1885 shows 32 head of horses belonging to said Estate appraised at $12 per head.  One horse appraised at $20 and two mules appraised at $35 each.  Of the horses he would show that T. P. Curbow, father of decedent, claimed eleven head as his own property and Petitioner being unable to confirm said claim.  After the most careful investigation of the facts, delivered the eleven head {illegible} ones to him…………

…..Claims belonging to said Estate – Of the account against T. P. Curbow ……..could collect nothing.  Said Curbow denied the debt and was and is insolvent.  Said claim is worthless. 

As of this writing, it is not know whether illness or injury caused the death of young Henry Harrison Curbow.  It appears that he fell ill around the 29th of December, 1884 and he died the 10th of January, 1885 – lingering in his sick bed for about thirteen days before he died. 

I should point out that Henry’s entire probate file is handwritten – and large portions of it are illegible because the handwriting is so poor.  On the last report filed by the administrator – Tilman P. Curbow’s name is mentioned again.  It appears that very shortly after the death of his son, and before an Administrator had been appointed, Tilman sold some of Henry’s hogs/shoats to an individual named Jimmy Edwards without the permission of the Court.  The Court ordered Jimmy Edwards to turn over the hogs, and he refused to do so.  A lawsuit over the hogs was contemplated but it appears that the issue was later resolved.  I can’t convey any more detail then that – as the handwriting is so poor on the document. 

Again, it is my belief that Tilman P. Curbow and son Henry Harrison Curbow were together leasing/working on the Bedwell land at the time of Henry’s death. 


This is all I know about the life of Henry Harrison Curbow.  I have been unable to locate an obituary for Henry, and I do not know where in McLennan County he is laid to rest.

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Posted by on January 20, 2011 in Curbow


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Harriet Curbow Miller

Harriet Curbow was the third daughter born to Tilman Curbow and Elizabeth Box – born sometime in 1852 in Mississippi, probably Itawamba County.  She was often referred to as “Hattie.”   Hattie may have been named after her aunt, Harriet Jane Box.  Harriet can be found in the 1860 and 1870 census with her parents.  On February 9, 1872 Harriet married Elijah Spencer Miller in McLennan County, Texas.  Harriet was 20 years old and Elijah was about 23 at the time of the marriage. 

Harriet Curbow Miller – Photo is courtesy of Tom Hedges

Harriet and Elijah lived in or near Waco, Texas through at least 1885 because Elijah can be found there in various McLennan County tax roll records.  At some point after 1885, Harriet and Elijah apparently moved their family to Hill County, Texas where their youngest daughter was born in Itasca in June of 1892 (according to her grandson).  It should be noted that Harriet’s grandfather William Bolton Box was living in Covington, Hill County, Texas, which is not far from Itasca.  He died there in 1887. 

Harriet and Elijah had seven children:  Frank in 1873; Thomas in 1874; Jesse in 1876; Minnie in 1879; John in 1889; Willie Mae in 1890; and Lou Ida Belle in 1892. 

Sometime after the birth of their last daughter, the Miller family moved to Indian Territory – Chickasaw Nation – present day Carter County, Oklahoma. 

1895 Indian Territory Map

This area is rich in Native American history.  In that regard – the Commission to the Five Civilized Tribes was appointed by President Grover Cleveland in 1893 to negotiate land with the Cherokee, Creek, Choctaw, Chickasaw and Seminole tribes. It is commonly called the Dawes Commission, after its chairman, Henry L. Dawes.  Tribe members were entitled to an allotment of land, in return for abolishing their tribal governments and recognizing Federal laws. In order to receive the land, individual tribal members first had to apply and be deemed eligible by the Commission.  The first application process for enrollment began in 1896, but was declared invalid.  In this 1896 application process appear the applications of:

Elijah E. Miller – Cherokee – Application #2131
Hattie J. Miller – Cherokee – Application #4074

So, because of this invalidation, the Dawes Commission started all over again in 1898.  People had to re-apply in order to be considered, even if they had already applied in 1896.   The resulting lists of those who were accepted as eligible became known as the Dawes Rolls.   Their formal name is the “Final Rolls of the Citizens and Freedmen of the Five Civilized Tribes in Indian Territory”. The Commission accepted applications from 1898 until 1907.  Neither Elijah nor Hattie appear on the Final Rolls.  After speaking with a genealogist at the Oklahoma History Center, she wonders if this could be our Elijah and Harriet.  If they had applied as Cherokees – why would they be living in Chickasaw Nation rather than the Cherokee Nation?   Good point.

Sometime between June of 1892 and December of 1904, Harriet Curbow Miller died.  At this point, I do not know if Harriet died in Texas or in Oklahoma.  Miller descendants claim that Harriet died in Oklahoma and is buried somewhere “around the Carter County, Oklahoma area.”   The news article below from The Daily Ardmoreite which was published on May 7, 1902 has piqued my interest.  The general location seems to fit and the timeframe is correct – but of course, I have no way of knowing if this is our Harriet Curbow:    Nine Lives Swept into Eternity at Foss, Oklahoma; Twenty Houses Washed Away; Inhabitants Left Homeless and Destitute; Searching for Dead; Property Destroyed.  Among the dead were Mrs. Miller and daughter

Harriet’s husband Elijah Miller remarried in December of 1904 and had several more children with his second wife.  It appears that he lived out the rest of his life in Oklahoma. 

I would love to know more about Harriet – and am especially interested in knowing when she died and where she is laid to rest.  If you know anything about her, I would love to hear from you. 

A big thanks to Tom Hedges, Harriet’s great grandson, for giving me such a great start on Harriet’s genealogy. 

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Posted by on January 8, 2011 in Brick Walls, Miller


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Tilman P. Curbow – Civil War Soldier

BG (“before genealogy”) the only thing I really knew about the Civil War was what I had learned in American history class and by watching Gone with the Wind!  Never would I have dreamed that so many of my husband’s ancestors were Confederate Civil War soldiers.  One such soldier was Tilman P. Curbow, my husband’s ggg-grandfather. 

Brother against Brother

“Blue against Gray – Brother against Brother!” Credit: AOL Images

These were turbulent and difficult times to be a Southerner.  I often reflect on the burden placed upon Elizabeth, Tilman’s wife, as she saw her husband leave for war.  Upon her fell the duty of managing the household and the raising of the children.  Keep in mind that at this time in history, “a lady” was not to leave the house without a gentleman escort; could not sign a contract on her own behalf; and could not vote.  During the Civil War period, women out of sheer necessity picked up tools and harnesses that their men had laid aside.  The southern home front during the Civil War was a place of severe hardship and heartache. 

Perhaps sensing the impending doom, sometime around 1858, Tilman Curbow and family left their Mississippi home and relocated to Carouse, Ouachita County, Arkansas.  

Map of Arkansas highlighting Ouachita County

On April 12, 1861, the first shots were fired in the American Civil War.  The State of Arkansas was a part of the Confederate States of America during the Civil War, and provided a source of troops, supplies, military and political leaders for the Confederacy.  One year after the 1860 census was taken, and three months after the start of the Civil War, on July 19, 1861, Tilman Curbow enlisted into the Confederate States Army.  He is indexed as follows:  CURBOW, T.P. Pvt – Enlisted 19 July 1861 at Arkadelphia, Arkansas; Discharged 6 July 1862 at Tupelo, Mississippi; Age 42, farmer, ht 5’ 10 ½”, eyes gray, hair light, complexion light. 

I do not know where Tilman’s family is located during this time period.  It may be that Elizabeth and the children stayed in Ouachita County, Arkansas.  Alternatively, it is possible that Elizabeth and children returned to Itawamba County, Mississippi to wait out the war with her father William Bolton Box.  The more likely scenario, however, is that Tilman has taken them to live with his brother, Wiseman Curbow, in Bowie County, Texas. 

Tilman was a member of the 6th Arkansas Infantry.  This Infantry Regiment was formed at Little Rock, Arkansas in June of 1861 with 604 men.  Its companies were recruited in Little Rock and the counties of Calhoun, Dallas, Ouachita, Arkansas, Lafayette and Union. 

Tilman P. Curbow – Muster Roll – Arkansas

After its organization, Tilman’s regiment marched overland to Pocahontas, Arkansas (which is located in Randolph County).  Remembering that Tilman was living in Carouse and enlisted in Arkadelphia, this could have been close to a 250 mile walk for him.  Measles broke out in camp, and a great many died there. 

In September of 1861, the regiment was transferred to Confederate service in the brigade (consisting of the 2nd, 5th, 6th, 7th and 8th Arkansas Infantry regiments) commanded by Brigadier General William J. Hardee.  After a raid into Missouri, the 6th Arkansas returned to camp at Pittman’s Ferry, on Current River.  Pittman’s Ferry, was used by northern and southern forces alike.  The Ferry had long been a landmark for early pioneers.  Nearby Indian Ford was a crossing on a route of the Cherokee Trail of Tears.  Present day Pitman’s Ferry area contains a number of trenches, rifle pits and cannon emplacements still visible today. 

The latter part of September, 1861, the brigade was moved to southeast Missouri, and then by boat to Columbus, Kentucky, arriving on October 3, 1861.  From there, it was sent to Cave City, Barren County, Kentucky, where it spent the winter of 1861. 

While camped at Cave City, the 6th Arkansas had its first run in with a Union patrol.  On December 17, 1861, the 6th Arkansas supported the 8th Texas Calvary in a clash at Woodsonville, Kentucky.  The regiment occupied this advanced position until the fall of Fort Donelson (Tennessee), when it moved with the remainder of the Army to Corinth, Mississippi under General Albert Sydney Johnston.  Colonel Shaver next commanded the brigade gallantly at the vicious Battle of Shiloh

Battle of Shiloh


The Battle of Shiloh, also known as the Battle of Pittsburg Landing, was a major battle in the western theater of the American Civil War, fought April 6th and 7th of 1862, in Hardin County, Tennessee.  Confederate forces under Generals Albert Sidney Johnston and P.G.T. Beauregard launched a surprise attack against the Union Army of Major General Ulysses S. Grant.  The Confederates achieved considerable success on the first day but were ultimately defeated on the second day.  About 3,482 men lost their lives over this two day period. 

After the Battle of Shiloh, when Corinth, Mississippi was evacuated, Tilman Curbow’s brigade retreated to Tupelo, Mississippi where it remained until July of 1862.

As noted above, Tilman is discharged from the Army in Tupelo, Mississippi on July 6, 1862 – and presumably heads for Texas – possibly on foot.  Below is an excerpt of Tilman Curbow’s discharge report: 

“I certify that the written name, T. P. Curbow, a private of Captain L. J. Hagg’s Company (F) of the 6th Regiment of Arkansas Volunteers, aged 42 years, 5 feet 10 ½ inches high, light complexion, grey eyes, light hair and by occupation a farmer was enlisted by Col. E. M. Garrett at Arkadelphia, Ark. on the 19th day of July 1861 to serve for one year and is now entitled to discharge by reason of being a Non-Conscripted (i.e, not drafted, rather a volunteer).  The said T. P. Curbow was last paid by E. C. Jordan to include the 30th day of April 1862 and has pay due from that date to the present date.  There is due him seventy dollars traveling allowance from Tupelo, Mississippi, the place of discharge to Arkadelphia, the place of enrollment.  Transportation not being furnished in kind.”

The report goes on to say that Tilman is owed back pay for two months and 27 days of service at $11.00 per month; that he is being paid a 10 cent per mile travel allowance for 200 miles of travel; and that a deduction was being made for clothing – over-drawers.  Tilman’s final pay was $61.90.  The discharge report was signed by A. W. Steward and by T. P. Curbow.

If you would like to read more on 6th Arkansas Infantry you can read it at:  Calvin L. Collier, First In – Last Out: The Capitol Guards, Arkansas Brigade – Unit History and Muster Rolls for Company.

When we catch back up with Tilman – he is in Texas !!  He has reenlisted into the Confederate Army and is a member of Nelson’s Company of the 2nd Battalion Cavalry, Texas State Troops.  His brother Wiseman Curbow (indexed as “Carlow”) has enlisted with him and is a member of this same battalion.  The company mustered out in early 1864.  The Battalion was assigned to Townes Cavalry Brigade, Slaughter’s Divisions for [Eastern] District of Texas, New Mexico and Arizona. 

Tilman P. Curbow - Civil War Muster Roll - Bowie County, Texas

The 2nd Battalion of the Texas State Troops was part of the 14th Brigade territorial militia.   According to law, all male citizens between 18-45 (later 50) were required to enroll in the territorial militia or state troops – so basically, all males of the above mentioned age that were not in the Confederate Army belonged to this reserve militia organization. 

If you believe you may have an ancestor who served in the Civil War you can check the Soldiers and Sailors Systems website.  I have a subscription to, and would be happy to pull a copy of your ancestor’s muster roll cards for you. 

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Posted by on January 4, 2011 in Civil War, Curbow


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Virginia Elizabeth Curbow Story

Virginia Elizabeth Curbow was the second daughter born to Tilman Curbow and Elizabeth Box.  She was often referred to as “Jennie.”  Because of the many conflicting records pertaining to Virginia – the details of her life have been a challenge to untangle! 

According to Jennie’s Texas Death Certificate, she was born 28 May 1851 in Mississippi – most likely in Itawamba County.  Jennie’s death certificate, the census records and both of her headstones (one set at the time of her death – the second at the time of her husband’s death) all conflict with one another when it pertains to her date of birth.  Her death certificate provides the year 1851; the first headstone provides the year 1852; the second headstone provides the year 1854; and the census records range from 1842 to 1853. 

To complicate matters further, Jennie’s name is confusing.  The older of the headstones lists her name as “Virginia” – the second headstone lists her name as “Jennie E.”  The census records vary drastically from Elizabeth – Sarah J. – Jane – Elizabeth J. – Janie – or any combination thereof.  Then to confuse matters further – in her marriage record she is listed as “Jane” Carbow/Corbin.  I do believe – despite the confusion – that this is one and the same person.  I have found nothing to indicate that these are two separate people.   

Jennie married Robert Alexander Story in McLennan County, Texas on either the 23rd or the 24th day of February, 1869.  Again, confirming that there was nothing easy about researching Virginia – for some reason that is unknown to me – there are two marriage records on file in McLennan County for this couple.  I do not know which date is correct. 

According to a Deed found in the records of McLennan County, Texas, Robert and Jennie Story purchased 97 acres of land on Williams Creek in the De La Vega Land Grant on 28 Nov. 1877.  Based on the McLennan County Tax Rolls, it appears that Jennie and her husband spent their entire married lives living on that property in Axtell, McLennan County, Texas.  Axtell is located about ten miles east of Waco, Texas and about five miles from where the Branch Davidian – FBI standoff occurred.  Sometime around 1886, Robert and Jennie purchased an additional 200 acres of land. 

Jennie Elizabeth and husband had five sons – sadly, only the youngest son, Frank Edward, lived to his adulthood.  Any parent shudders at the thought of losing one child – let alone losing four children.  It makes me think that they must have had a very strong and unshakeable marriage to live through such tragedy.    

  • Levy Story born 1869 – died before 1880
  • John Story born 1874 – died 5 Nov. 1882

Published Waco Daily Examiner, Tuesday, November 7, 1882:  Mr. R. A. Story, who lives seven miles east of the city, on Williams Creek, lost a son, Sunday, about nine years old from a very peculiar attack of sickness.  The child was recuperating from chills and had got strong enough to pick cotton. Friday morning, while going to work, he was attacked with a spasm, and from that time until death never moved or spoke, dying at 10:00 a.m. on Sunday.  Two physicians were called in. Dr. Pitts, of Mt. Calm, described the malady to congestion of the brain and spine. Dr. Howard of Waco said it was black jaundice.  The stricken parents only know that their child is dead and buried.

  • Henry Story born 1877 – died before 1900
  • Joseph Story born 1879 – died before 1900
  • Frank Edward born 1892 – the only son to live to adulthood.

Jennie died 12 Feb 1924 in Axtell, McLennan County, Texas – she was 72 years old at the time of her death.

 The Waco Times-Herald Page 5, Published Tuesday, February 12, 1923 – DEATH MONDAY NIGHT – BELOVED AXTELL WOMAN – Mrs. R. A. Story died at her home here last night, after an illness of several years.  She was one of the pioneer residents of Axtell, beloved by a wide circle of friends and acquaintances.  Mrs. Story is survived by her husband and one son.

Jennie Elizabeth Curbow Storey - Texas Death Certificate

Virginia Elizabeth Curbow Story, stone set at the time of Jennie's death


Jennie is laid to rest (along with her husband and youngest son) in the Axtell Cemetery.  The cemetery is remote, quiet and well-tended.  The Story family is laid to rest together under a very large old cedar tree.  As mentioned above, Jennie has two headstones. 

Virginia Elizabeth Curbow Story, stone set at the time of husband's death

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Posted by on January 3, 2011 in Story


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Lucinda Curbow Lytle

Lucinda Curbow Lytle (my husband’s great-great grand aunt) was the first child born to Tilman P. Curbow and Elizabeth Box (18 Dec, 1843 in Georgia).  Lucinda was known to her family and friends as “Lucy.”  Lucy spent a good part of her childhood living in Itawamba County, Mississippi before coming to Texas with her family during the Civil War period. 

On August 20, 1878 Lucinda married William Henry Lytle, a Confederate Civil War veteran, in McLennan County, Texas.  Given the time period – she married late in life – at the age of 34 (her groom was 37 years old).  When I reflect upon the life of Lucinda Curbow, I very often envision her as the family caretaker.  Given that she was the oldest daughter, I think that it is entirely possible that Lucinda may have set aside her own desires for a family – and that she married later in life, because she knew that she was needed by her father to assist in running the household and taking care of her younger siblings after the death of their mother, Elizabeth.  In fact, her youngest brother, Henry Harrison Curbow, is still living with Lucy and her new husband in the 1880 census. 

It is fairly clear, based on census records, McLennan County Tax Rolls and Waco City Directories that Lucinda and her husband spent their entire married lives living together in Waco, Texas.  They had four children, but it appears that only two of them survived to adulthood, Belle Sarah and William Henry Lytle, Jr.   The family home was located east of downtown Waco on Clay Avenue.  According to a local historian that my husband and I met at the McLennan County courthouse, this location used to be a very charming Victorian section of town.  Sadly it has fallen into neglect and disrepair. 

Lytle Family Home – Clay Avenue – Waco, McLennan County, Texas

Lucinda’s husband, William Henry Lytle, died many years before she did – in 1905.  After his death, Lucinda can be found always living with her children, Belle and Edward, Jr.  In 1915, Lucy filed a Widow’s Pension Application based on her husband’s Civil War Service where the Judge describes her as, “an old lady whose mind is very feeble.” 

Lucy died 16 July, 1923 in Waco, McLennan County, Texas.  She was 80 years, 5 months and 2 days old when she died of kidney failure.

Published on MONDAY, JULY 16, 1923 in the WACO TIMES HERALD

Lucinda Curbow Lytle - Obituary


Lucinda is laid to rest in the Lytle family plot in Greenwood Cemetery, Waco, McLennan County, Texas.

Lytle Family Headstone/Plot - Greenwood Cemetery, Waco, McLennan County, Texas

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Posted by on January 2, 2011 in Lytle


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Tilman P. Curbow – Southern Patriot

Tilman P. Curbow is the great-great-great-great grandfather of my son.  Tilman Curbow migrated across the south and brought the Curbow family to Texas.  Because of Tilman’s adventurous spirit, my son can today say proudly, “I am a seventh generation Texan.”   Tilman fought a war; suffered many hardships; lived a rough and tumble life; and left a trail that was often difficult to follow.  The bits and pieces and details of his life were buried by time and only recently were they uncovered and put in written form.  Tilman’s life tells the story of hard work, determination and real grit, and perhaps a barroom brawl or two (seriously) !  

There are many unanswered questions about Tilman Curbow.  We know that he was born around 1821 in Georgia and that he died in Texas somewhere around 1900.  I believe that Tilman was the son of Henry Curbow (who died in Cass County, Texas in 1850).  Additionally, I believe that Tilman is a younger brother of Wiseman Curbow who settled in Bowie County, Texas.  Tilman was married to Elizabeth Box, the daughter of William Bolton Box.  Their two oldest children Lucinda and Oliver Perry were born in Georgia.   The rest of their children (Virginia Elizabeth, Harriet, William F., Martha Isabell and Henry Harrison) were born in Mississippi, most likely Itawamba County.

Tilman Curbow served the Confederacy in the Amercian Civil War – first with the Arkansas 6th Infantry Regiment where he participated in the Battle of Shiloh and later in Texas with Nelson’s Co., 2 Battalion Cavalry.

Tilman Curbow - Civil War Muster Roll - Bowie County, Texas - Feb 3, 1864

During the reconstruction period Tilman Curbow was in Bowie County where he served as a juror on the infamous Dalby murder trial.  

Around 1867 Tilman moved his family to McLennan County – east of Waco on the Brazos River – where he farmed and ranched.   Tilman lost his wife sometime between 1870 and 1880.   Toward the end of his life Tilman became involved in a lawsuit over probate/property rights which case went all the way to the Texas Supreme Court. In connection with this lawsuit a “Suggestion of Death” for Tilman Curbow was filed on March, 1902.  

These are the last known records that Tilman Curbow left us.  It is my hope that as I progress in the research – I will be able to shed more light on some of our unanswered questions about him.  While we do not know everything about Tilman – we do know without a doubt that he possessed a strong pioneering spirit – that he experienced hardships – and that he was a true southern patriot.  His humble life is remembered here with fondness and appreciation.

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Posted by on January 1, 2011 in Brick Walls, Curbow


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